Lol only a gift to yourself if my female finally gives in
She is being a meaner. He is ready and set, no longer zipping around like he is on fire, but now determined to show "this is MY nest!! Come here :p"
And yes, I would actually avoid asking for advice at Aquarium Central plus don't go look at the bettas - trust me they are nice and all, but some are either dead, being killed by other fish, sick, tattered, or awesomely beautiful -.- I would've bought all the females in the tank but I did not want to support them anymore then I had to lol