Can we please drop the argument?
If you have a problem with another member, keep it to PMs without running back to the forum with "he said, she said"...the rest of the forum doesn't need to be involved, and it just ends up in topics getting locked.
Let's just stay on topic please. I think it'd make for interesting discussion. It's said that a few irresponsible or thoughtless people would ruin it for proper fish keepers.