Well I did contact my Cat's Vet and he didn't know too much about fish or exotic animals but did know of a former employee friend of his that is a Vet who moved far away and he felt so bad about my delema that he called his Vet friend up and emailed him my pictures of the sick fish with my story of what is going on in my Sorority tank. The other Vet wasn't too sure either just by my pictures, but suggested a parasite med seeing they were starting to get skinny, even the ones who were still eating a little bit. He knows that I tried the Bacteria and Fungal meds already with no results plus they still kept dying.
So.... Yesterday I added some anti parasite meds to the 30 Gallon. The Vet said to keep all of the fish in the tank to treat them all plus to kill anything still in the tank and filter etc. He told me after all this I will probably have to recycle it all over again but will be more easy with less fish. I know I will have to do way more water changes and testing of the water if I do have to recycle it.
If they all end up dying I'm going to get rid of the tank or turn it into a crab tank or for a non water type pet or something IDK. But so far I am hanging in there in fighting this fight.
Oh one more thing...So far I have had no deaths today and they are all eating again this morning!!!!