Originally Posted by registereduser
I have mostly males and no spraying. However my oldest male is a HUMPER!
He is also the same one that climbs up on cabinets and aquariums and drinks the water. He is my biggest cuddler
Hair goes with the territory as does destructive behavior of all sorts, both from dogs and cats. You have to have a patient loving attitude because they seem to sense your anger and act out even worse. Animals don't understand discipline after the fact, only if you continuously catch them in the act will they eventually get it.
Are you talking to me with the second paragraph? I've lived with cats and dogs since I was in my mother's womb. I understand fur and poo and finding cats on benches licking your butter is all part of owning pets.
Me and my mum are huge animal lovers. The end goal is to hopefully move to the country in 2-3 years as mum wants to have space for her dogs and then we can build an outdoor cat run for all the cats. Here there's nowhere really to put one as the dogs have the backyard, our front yard is landscaped and both sideways are extremely narrow.
Of course we have crazy cat who would probably spend all day sitting on top of the cat run trying to get in so he can massacre everybody.