Thanks, I know mom has her problems!! But she is physically able to care for things, and with her job now she is a little better financially able to care for her pets. It's just fatigue upon going home after work (I understand that) and then she sleeps. In her waking hours she is online playing neopets keyquest. Like, talk about needing to be on Strange Addictions. Mom plays that for hours a day. Unhealthily. And since her job is literally across the street from her house she DOES NOT exercise. She always makes excuses to not go out for a short walk.
So, her time is spent all day in her house, minus the laundromet and work. There is no excuse.
I wanted to take her fish months ago but it was inappropriate of me to suggest. Once she had the first death scare, she felt it was time for emergency intervention. She hasn't spoken to me since the day after he died so idk.