Ok i went to the lfs, i didnt take the danios back, instead i took the pleco back, superman was flaring up at him all the time, and flaring too much is bad for his health i kno, and i couldnt afford to get a new filter and heater for my other tank right now, but i did however come back with a new family memeber a platy, i want to know if it is male or female, it looks kinda bloated, any suggestions?