Well here she is safe and sound! She was so much more than what i was expecting! :D Looks exactly like her picture too!
And boy oh boy for the 2 weeks i have owned mister "Flint" aka flinty he hasnt flared ONCE at any of the other males or any thing i put in front of him. But as soon as i stuck her in the tank to warm her up a bit he went right over and started flaring like a crazy boy! It was too cute! Even shimmer gave him a little flare lol i think it was meant to be with these two, which im glad because this is the pair i plan to spawn :)