Fishy seems stable. I just did a 75% water change on him and he seems normal. he hasnt lost any more of his fins (knocks on wood) and that white stuff i've been seeing IS fin regrowth! His tail fin is now growing back. He's also very happy and super active in our living room. if hes not watching us he watching the TV set so he's seriouly entertained. I forgot at my job he spent all day watcing people walk back and forth, for a fish i guess thats never a dull moment. Hopefully fishy will continue to improve. Also the API cure all for parasites came today...you never know i may need it.
I'll post again, hopefullu with more good news!