I just got mad that it seems nobody approves of anything I do or want to do..
Well, get over it. You let that be an obstacle it will always be an obstacle. You need to do things for yourself-not for approval. You will NEVER be happy if you live your life trying to get approval.
You are the one that posted this:
Ok... I guess I will never feel the joy of bringing life into the world...:'(
I don't know you and I can't be expected to know the intent of a post. Might be wise to add in a "j/k" behind something like that?
Honestly, at the end of the day, nobody really cares what you do with your fish. It is YOUR problem if you end up with fish you can't give away. The time and effort and expense for the most part is identical if you breed good or bad fish. You post asking for advice and snap when you get it so it's likely pointless to try and explain anything.
I don't know if you are a kid or not-sounds like you probably are so here is some free advice. Don't take advice personally. It is how you learn. You wanna be successful with these fish or not? If not, do whatever you wanna do cause like I said nobody is losing sleep over it. If you do want to be successful do your homework and do things right.
Look up posts by Mr. Vampire. That is one young man-13ish I think-that did his homework and was successful. He really had some nice fish. This whole betta breeding thing isn't rocket science. You can be successful in a reasonably short time by reading up on genetics and such and asking questions.
Breeding bettas are mostly done for "art". Believe it or don't but it is what it is. The fish is just a different medium-which by definition is the substance on which an artist creates art.