Hellllpppp mee noww!!! Please

[Ilovemyshiny]

i put my girl, omega red, in wiht my male ghost flower. they are for the most part ignoring each other. on occasion one will follow the other around. what is this? he is flaring but not really doning much. its like they are playing tag

[Ilovemyshiny]

OH MY GOD THEIR TARING UP THE NEST!! parts of it are floating every where!!
about how long does breeding generally take?

[AngelicScars]

I'm not a breeder, but if they are tearing up the nest then I think it's time to start over and get the female out of there.

[Ilovemyshiny]

lol, they stopped i think he was trying to get her under to squeeze her adn she didnt want to. the nest is sitll huge and and she is now hiding.

[Ilovemyshiny]

omega red is realllyyyy good at hiding from him. shes been hiddent for a while now and he is searching every where.

[Ilovemyshiny]

shes seems really really afraid is that normal? im watching them closely and neither seem to have gotton hurt very much yet. no torn fins missing scales are anything. she just seems really shook up. normally shes really really fiesty.

[Ilovemyshiny]

half of omega reds tail is now missing, so im taking her out. if any one feels like acctaully giving me advice i would really really appriciate it.

[dramaqueen]

If she's getting torn up then, yeah, I'd remove her.

[MrVampire181]

Originally Posted by AngelicScars

I'm not a breeder, but if they are tearing up the nest then I think it's time to start over and get the female out of there.

A recent female did this. I removed her for a day and replaced her with a new female. Then I took out the new female and replaced the old female, good spawning behavior :)

[MrVampire181]

Originally Posted by Ilovemyshiny

shes seems really really afraid is that normal? im watching them closely and neither seem to have gotton hurt very much yet. no torn fins missing scales are anything. she just seems really shook up. normally shes really really fiesty.

Usually (with my pairs) the female is very scared. My black delta tore up a female and last week she was really scared of my halfmoon. I jarred them next to each other and now she's not afraid.