1. Use punctuation and capitalization, please. It helps.
2. ".... n add the clear water stuff that is suppose to remove odors and cloudiness..."
So what is it that you're putting in, exactly? What is the name of the brand? Also, if you have clean water, you shouldn't have an odor.
3. Are you using water conditioner? Some places have lots of metallic chemicals in the water. Water conditioner breaks down these chemicals quickly so your fish isn't affected by them. Here's an image of the brand I use:
4. Did your boyfriend recommend those water changes to you?
5. Okay, Bettas usually don't eat flake food. If I'm correct, Tropical Medley is flake food. Bettas need pellet foods. Like this:
Okay. I'm sorry if I'm coming off a little blunt. Just trying to get a better understanding of what you're telling us. Good luck and let us know how things go!