Originally Posted by rsskylight04
I wish we could all live in a world were sex and romantic relationships were not so overly important. I enjoy my relationship very much, but I hate to think that others who are not like me have to feel unusual or uneasy just for being themselves. I would hate to feel pressured by society to be anything other than who and what I am. Best wishes and my full moral support to you!
I completely agree with this. The "Hollywood Perspective" that tells us how we have to look and feel is just not true for so many people, and so many of us feel awkward, alone, or depressed only
because we do not conform to this 'ideal' - in so many different ways. . .
Be who you are! I've always thought you were wonderful just like you, and I hate to think that you would feel uncomfortable, or strange, or any less lovely for being exactly who you have always been!
Anyway, right now you have big dreams and big goals, and focusing on school is exactly
what you need to be doing. When you're ready - if you're ready, you will be! And if not? You'll find so much fulfillment in building the life you've always dreamed of and following the path you've been on since you were so young, that it isn't going to bother you
one bit in the end. You're the important one here, not the rest of the world. It's odd right now, in uni, as you're steeped in this stuff - but once you're through and following your own path, I have a feeling that you won't be bothered as much by the rest of the world. . .
You're a very strong person, and one of the coolest chicks I've ever met, stay true to yourself, and I'm betting you will be happy with where you end up when all is said and done. *hugs*