He sounds like a major brat haha.
Dallas is the hardest to get into a cup for water changes but other than that she is super friendly. I can't scare my fish if I try. I have to literally poke them with my finger to scoot them away at feeding time (to make sure the right fish gets the food)
But my CT male is a different story. He hides off in the back of the tank and only comes to the front to eat