*sigh* so I decided to not make a new thread and just tell everyone on this one...my male disliked the female

she was all submissive almost right away breeding bars really noticeable, fins close to body swimming with head down slowly towards him...And he was like EWWWWW cooties! And kept swimming away from her and hiding! I was like what...that's weird and he kept doing this. Then he just tore up the female and kept running away and sitting on the tank bottom all stressed like. So I just took him out, he seems content again lol. I started a new pair a few days ago. He has a nicer bubblenest already anyways

he's working away. I think in a day or two I could release the female, she just flares at him sometimes now, I am hoping she will stop soon