So I tried once and they embraced once with no eggs coming out...then the male got sort of frustrated he could not embrace her correctly and started getting too aggressive and took a chunk out of her...so I took her out, treated her and put her in the jar again to let him calm down.
I know they embraced...but I felt that the bite was too bad to not treat it. It healed up nicely though! Hopefully she will still want to breed...she still has breeding bars and whatnot.
He built another nest 2 days later and now I released them again :) so hopefully they will embrace again without problems...he is being much less aggressive now today...they are still chasing each other around
my female isn't letting him be too aggressive with her now she will flare back once he gets too nippy. She seems to be somewhat submissive now but still no embracing.