I think there are benefits to being both single and with someone. Though it has to be the RIGHT someone!
I've had horrible horrible luck with relationships, th girls I was with always turned out to be nuts!
I had dated guys before I was comfortable coming out, then I dated just girls.
Then one day I was at a house party, and met joe. I was with someone else at the time, though I really enjoyed hanging out with him at the parties we both went to. It was about nine months later that he invited me to watch tv at his house, and the rest is history.
I NEVER would've thought I would be with a guy again, but the relationship I have with joe is the best I've ever had. It's been a year and a half, and we've had our problems, but so far, so good!
I've been married before, and that was a HUGE mistake. I won't rush into things ever again. Why get married if your happy and content with the way things are?
I love coming home to him, and sleeping next to him at night. He's an amazing man, and he really helps me out around the house. I couldn't ask for better.