I agree with Tabby ^.
My hubby does everything for me if I ask him to. And if he sees that I'm struggling with something he will ask if I need help. And if there is a deadline (like moving) he will definitely step up and help me get it going. I don't like to say negative things, however, my sister was in a relationship similar to yours and she learned the hard way that he was a jerk and she finally left him. He was mad at her because his rank was about to move up (he's in the army) and they wouldn't allow him to rank up unless he paid child support. He's forcefully paying it and he is now trying to get full custody of his daughter so he doesn't have to pay it anymore. So not only was he a jerk when they were together, he's a jerk trying to take my niece away from her mother so he can give her to his mom. That way he doesn't have to pay child support.
So, be sure he's the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. If he's this way now, I don't want to see how he would be when you have kids and you really needing his help. Your a very beautiful girl (saw your pics in Face behind the name!
) and you can easily find a true gentleman that would do anything for you.