Originally Posted by bahamut285
@Vaygirl: I would just say 10 anyway. Considering they don't understand your feelings on the matter, it is impossible to objectively put "a number" to a problem based on severity with complete honesty. Also, letting the person who has "more of an issue with it" choose the final decision is horrendously unfair to the other person, depending on what the issue is
Well, in my house there's understanding. So it's not really an issue. Sometimes I decide if it's more important to him and not so important to me, what's the problem with letting him have his way. And it goes the other way too.
A good example is my fish stuff. They're REALLY a big part of my life. But he didn't want any to begin with. Then I asked him how important it was to NOT have fish in his house and he realized it didn't matter very much to him. So I get what I want.
That makes sense to me. But honestly, we agree on most everything. So we don't run into this very often.