rant- i know my bf loves me and likes certain positive aspects of me, but I wish he wasn't so negative and could at least tell me once in a while some nice things about me instead of criticizing everything I do. No, it is not "constructive criticism", or at least I don't see it that way. To me it is more like bulldozer criticism (like my construction 'play on words' or whatever it's called?
) And he has the nerve to tell me I totally screwed up in email I sent to my supervisor and now she will pretty much be offended at me when he cannot even communicate well himself just because he says "well you don't wanna walk into a minefield when you go to meet with her do you? I am trying to help you". Now, I am going to be completely full of stress and anxiety until i DO meet with her.
I'd rather walk into a minefield than deal with all my anxiety right now, thank you very much! ESPECIALLY since I think I have something physical going on DUE at least partially to being overly stressed and anxious. MEN! they are oblivious sometimes! grrr..