I think we need to take a step back from this and just evaluate what's going on.. there are obviously some misunderstandings here, and there may or may not be something wrong with how the fish are being kept. I'm -not- attacking anyone, so please don't think that I am. I've read the other threads and I agree, bettabreeder, that you should probably take a break from trying to breed until you've gathered more information and have more adequate space to attempt it again. The users on these forums are looking out for the health of the fish.
Perhaps you should let us know exactly what sorts of tanks and setups you have so we have a better idea of it.. I've read several different things across the many threads you've made and I'm not sure exactly what sizes are what and who is where.
Again, we're really here to help, not to embarrass you.. there are several members that have a wealth of information, especially when it comes to breeding. Always be ready to learn from them.