Leap of faith? Bah. I am not that bold. I'll just go about things in my own way, which is to let him make the first move. Is that me being shy? Lazy? Unwilling? Maybe. But I am not gonna get my heart torn out and stomped into a pile of mush ever again.
EDIT:Kinetic, try a dating site if your so keen to get a date, or a long lasting relationship. I tried one last year and it got me my now ex boyfriend. He and I are still good friends, or least I thought we were but he hasn't really texted or messaged me in a while and we haven't really been hanging out much. He says its his work schedule, but I have my doubts.
Last edited by TheCrabbyTabby; 08-19-2012 at 07:56 PM.
dating sites are kind of hit and miss, even if you're serious about finding someone. and the free ones? people barely even fill their profile out at all sometimes, and STILL send you one word messages like "hi" and expect you to reply.
then sometimes when you dont reply you get the guy who messages you again and says "i'm content to love you from afar" @_@
then again you do get a winner sometimes :) even if it doesn't work out
I understand, Kinetic. The old saying "Time heals all wounds" sometimes isn't true. It would take a millennium to heal some of my wounds. That's why I don't want to take the leap of faith. I just can't do that knowing that its outcome might be disastrous.