I'm going to add my aunt and uncle to the list of turkeys and first on the list to be roasted. They live 30 minutes away from my grandmother so doesn't it make sense that they should drive my grandmother down to Sacramento for Christmas instead of making my cousin's husband drive 2 hours up to get her? But noooo, my aunt has said she "feels physically threatened" by my grandmother and refuses to be in a car with her. My grandmother who is, by the way, 92 years old and has severe macular degeneration.