OMG Sakura! Good luck!
Yes they make tapers for ears. My sister used to wear them out for days at a time to stretch them. Now the holes in her ears are permanently stretched. eww. And they smell when she removes the plugs.
Ingrown!? I used to have such ingrowns on my large toes that I picked with nailclippers and thumbtacks that I think it caused dirt to get in under the nail. I now have tow fungus on two of my nails. I picked the nail off a month or so ago but it's grown back and still fungusy. Ingrowns hurt :(