I'm sorry, Olympia. :( *hugs*
Laki, I honestly don't know. She's an adorable cat despite all of her personality disorders and I do love her. But she is so much work and I'm honestly beginning to worry about all the bald patches. I really think if we let her outside for a few hours each day, she'd work off some of her stress but my mom has this fear that she won't come back. This, despite the one time when my brother did let her outside for a few hours and when we came home, there she was sitting by the back door.