How long have you had her? It takes them quite a while to settle in and in my experiences so far, the females can get stressed very easily during this time. My one female Goldikova didn't stop showing stress bars at me until a few days ago and I've had her for almost three weeks. But she still gets stressed when she sees a camera.
I wouldn't say she dislikes you. I think she's just very skittish, possibly from being netted. I know some people prefer not to use a net at all and use a small cup to scoop them up.
Give your girl some time. If you want, you can certainly transfer her to the smaller bowl (change the water daily!) and keep that bowl near you. The more she sees you and the more you touch her tank or move around it, the more comfortable she'll be around you.