I've done a little over 50% water change and added in the new water at a temperature warmer than the old ( carefully, no stress streaks ^-^ ), and threw in a little FW AQ salt, not the full dose. I'll only do that part once since I have live plants, but they seemed to do okay with it before.
I'll continue to do a 50% higher temp change daily and see how it goes with that. he's used to my hand and the cup so he won't mind. I'll keep the thread updated if I see any changes ^-^
and I'll look about the frozen glassworms though my mom doesn't seem to keen on the idea ^-^; thanks for the help guys ♥♥