Thankfully my boogers haven't given me much stress, yet.
Nothing can give me hatred against them, though. There's nothing like coming home and just sitting in front of their tanks watching them. Or when I wake up and walk into the living room and they come SHOOTING to the front of their tanks going, "haaai mooom!!"
I hope all of you take some extra time out of your day just to sit in silence and watch them, and allow it to bring peace to you! They shouldn't be stressful, but rather a joy to own. That's why we bought them, right??