This is my last try before i send her and the other girls to a new home.

She is a little bigger then he is, so i dont know if it will work.
I put them in saterday night, He is building a bubble nest today.
Every couple of mins she swims over and beats him with her tail, flaring, he flairs back and chases her away. He works more on his nest and she will return after about 2 mins, tried to beat him with her tail again, he embraces her...but im pretty sure he is to clumsy about it yet to get any thing right. He can wrap around her, but doesn't flip her. Half of the time he stuns her, the other half he stuns himself. :/ first times are always so awkward.
Both have damage to Anal fins, but not badly. No body bites and she still has bars.
we will see how this works out.