Day 2 and nothing,
The female is being a pain and has all but refused to follow the male to the nest. She is staying on one side of the tank and flares at him when he comes close. She is still eggy and has faint bars. The male is not giving up and is still tending his nest and trying his hardest to get her to follow him, bless his heart. Other then one little tear in the females caudal there hasn't been any aggression so I'm going to leave them another night and maybe they'll get down to business tonight.