Join Date: Nov 2018
Location: Oil City PA. USA
Don't beat yourself up over these losses. I know we may not know the reason and never will. It's not our place to know. It is our place however when we take on the responsibility of another life, to care for and give them all we can to give them a better home than what they had. I lost my 9 year old Harry to old age and I know he had a very good life and gave back his love in many ways. Ben, who was a great clown and stress reliever was poisoned by a jerk. Then there was Blue who for no known reason died just lately. I Still have Gunny, Little Bee, Morry, and Cal to care for and they have been receiving more water changes and water testing then thy care to have, but I need to know they have the best. I will soon have a new boy with in the next 2 weeks and He too will have the very best I can give.
However I'd watch your better half real close. LOL (I know he didn't do anything to have this happen But you can always have him to blame instead of you. LOL) He's got big shoulders.