[lillyandquigly]

Might be getting a new betta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First have to get tank divider though. Excited: DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

 

[lillyandquigly]

Please ppost pictures so i can get ideas of what kind I want Thanks ,lillyandquigly

 

[lillyandquigly]

really really happy

 

[N03113]

You may want to consider taking care of the ones you have now (and learning how to properly take care of them) before you venture on getting a new one. Rushing into to getting a new pet so quickly after you've had a loss is not always a good idea.

 

[lillyandquigly]

I meant to say my remaining betta female is getting a new tank and tht was kind rude with the whole properly take care of them thing

 

[Jessicatm137]

Congrats!

 

[N03113]

I meant to say my remaining betta female is getting a new tank and tht was kind rude with the whole properly take care of them thing

Sorry I don't sugar coat things - in light of your recent experience in homing 2 females and a male and the back and forth debate you had on another thread, retrospectively, you don't think there is a bit of truth in that?

Lesson learned, sure... but I suppose it really is a bit of an annoyance to see you return a day after they told you that it was a dangerous risk and say, "oh you were right.. they tore my fish up" It was irresponsible of you.

 

[Sakura8]

Okay, N03113, you don't have to sugar coat things but you should at least be civil and considerate of the OP's feelings.

 

[lillyandquigly]

I do know how to properly take You're not sugarcoating things, you're being really rude, and didn't you see that I didn't mean to say that I was getting a new betta, I meant to say that my girl betta is getting a new tank. It's not like I'm not sad about her dying because I'm really sad and you should think of this: If your betta just died would you like a person being really mean to you about it?

 

[lillyandquigly]

and actually they didn't tear her up, she most likely died because she exploded because she was a weak fish

 

[dramaqueen]

How did the fish die?

 

[dramaqueen]

Exploded?

 

[lillyandquigly]

and i didn't return a day after they warned me, they warned me before, but my fish had lived together for years. They were all friendly to each other, she died because she blew up.

 

[lillyandquigly]

yeah, her belly blew up

 

[dramaqueen]

Did you have 1 male and 2 females together?

 

[lillyandquigly]

yeah I think she got egg bound

 

[dramaqueen]

I'm sorry for your loss. Males and females should never br housed together evcept for breeding purposes only.

 

[lillyandquigly]

I know now. I think I'm going to stop going on here though, because most of the time anything I say people keep on being kind of mean to me because I made a mistake

 

[N03113]

I know now. I think I'm going to stop going on here though, because most of the time anything I say people keep on being kind of mean to me because I made a mistake

It's okay to make mistakes, we all make mistakes.. it's about learning from them. I've lost fish before because of mistakes that I've made, but I own up to it... I'm sorry you think my original comment was rude, but I contend that my comment was valid advice that you can choose to take or leave. And how was I to know you meant a tank and not another betta? I made my comment based on what you wrote in the original post.

 

[Alcemistnv]

O.O is it possible for females to explode?

I'm new to bettas myself, only have Buddha for 4 months, but the sound of a betta exploding sounds kinda...creepy. I don't know how females function, considering I've only been caring and searching for info on males sooo...