I'm sorry about your betta fish and ADF's. 
Otos are schooling fish, so it'd be good to get her at least another 2 oto friends.
I'm pretty sure the minimum for otos is 10 gallons for a permanent home, 5 should be fine for a while. Take a look at the TFK profile on otos.
Otos are schooling fish, so it'd be good to get her at least another 2 oto friends.