My pair just spawned last night (my first successful spawn ) and I have some eggs in the nest. The problem is the male isn't interested, but the female has been picking up eggs and building onto the bubble nest (which is truthfully almost non-existent). The male has been chasing the female at times and swimming under the nest, but I haven't seen him taking care of it. Would it be best to pull the male and leave the female? Or should I try to artificially hatch the eggs?