Ok, I found a web site, and I see what you are refering to. I guess you taught me something new! I've known people to keep water lettuce in betta tanks, with no ill effects, but that would be because their bettas just didn't nibble on the plant, I guess.
It also lists pothos as a toxic plant for bettas, too, and I have kept pothos ivy in all of my betta tanks with no problems.
If this concerns you, then please take it out. There are plenty of other floating plants, as you mentioned, if you want to use one of those.
Sorry for the incorrect advice. I was going by experience, and not thorough research...